Give sometime. Time will heal the pain

It was all good in my life before this happen. Earlier I used to be so happy, cheerful and in love with my life and now agony of this i can't tackle. Why ! why god why ? why it only happens with me.

These are the words which frequently comes from ones mouth when we are going through rough times in our life. There are situation when nothing seems to be right and all we do start blaming our destiny and god. It could be either failure in relationship, not scoring good in exams, not qualifying completion exam, job life or anything else.

And you must have heard of this :

After darkness there always comes light, but we must wait to see it.

Situation 1: (A)

College life :  Awesome life where you learn more life lessons. Most of the students gets into relationship during this phase, out of which  90%  won't work 🤣.  All your friends get committed to someone else and now you think now its your turn. Turns out things don't work between you and the besotted one. You felt heart broken, want to share your grief with your friends. And all you see there is no one and you got racked up by loneliness. You are left alone as your friends are busy with their beloved ones. They were not there for you when you need them the most.

Situation 2 : (B)

Job life : You worked hard and finally you have a offer letter in your hands. You worked harder and harder each day and now the day comes when you when you are going to receive a full time job role with decided package. Turns out, one of your colleague get higher package then the rest of others.   Why ?  Because 'that' one worked harder than you. No that's a misconception, it was because 'that' found out to be the 'Crush of your boss' 😝😜. And when you asked the management about your less package they denigrate you. You got upset because of the derogatory comments made about your work.

I'd like to emphasize how important it is for people to learn from their past.

Lessons learnt :

1. (A) Do not expect from someone else that they will be there for you when you need them. 

2. (A) You don't need someone to complete yourself or never try to find the reason of your happiness in others.

3. (B) These kinds of things usually happen in most of the corporate world, so get used to it 😅. Stop doubting on yourself instead work harder on your skills. You are full of loathing and despair. If you are not being valued find another place where you can best fit in.

'But without the dark we would never see the stars'

Patience and time will heal everything.

Outcomes :

1. (A) Oh God ! i was crying for that moron 🙈. Everything happens for a good reason.

2. (A) Enjoy your own company. Spend time with yourself. Understand your own personality very precisely.

3. (A) My availability for the people who needs me. I solace them with everything i could.😄 

4. (B) At least you had job offer in your hand at that time. Stop bad-mouthing them (old company) all the time. Remember the good things happen there.

5. (B) Helping others to find job without any expectation.

6. Feeling grateful for what you have and thanking god for saving your life once again. 

If you also learnt some lessons from your past then do share in the comment section.

Thanks for reading 😊

Jai shri Krishna🙏