When do you realize you are getting mature ?

Whenever the maturity topic comes up, everyone starts making its connectivity with the adult age (18+). Maturity does not come with age, it takes experience about how you deal with the people and how you reacts when something comes up in front of you.

so here are some of the things which I realize :

• When you start contributing something to your home after you start earning. It is the time when you start taking the responsibility.😏

                                 

• when you stop comparing yourself with others and focus on becoming the best version of you. 
• When you stop expecting from the people (including friends and relatives).
• when you stop using abusive words, language. you know it doesn't make you cool or modern.
• when you know what to wear at which place. 
• When you don't care about 4 people (or society) that are going to talk about you. (God knows where those 4 people are and i actually have never seen them 😂  )
• When you know why you should not eat "Non-Veg". There is big difference between human and animals.
• You stop complaining about the things every time.
• You help people because you know money is not the only thing for helping someone.
• When you actually care and respect your parents instead of posting about them in social networking sites. 

                                            

• When you realize smoking and drinking (alcohol) are not cool.
• when you realize people wants to be friends with you only when they need you (not considering the real friendship)
• when you learnt your lessons from the past.
• when you drop the thinking of taking revenge and believe in the law of karma.
• when you give priority to your health.

                                

• when you realize it's okay to be single and you don't need anyone to complete yourself.
• when you connect yourself spiritually and become an unswerving believer of god, then what others would think won't matter you.
• when you make normal conversation to the person whom you were not in talking terms for some past years. 

so what have you learn't so far from life. You can mention that in the comment section.

Till then stay safe stay healthy and keep reading my post.😊

Jai Shri Krishna 🙏